Continuing DBing

[u-turn]

Peter
These are all questions that I have too. Thanks for asking them. We are on parallel paths right now as you said

I too have no way to actually monitor NC besides changes in behavior and I know she is tech savvy enough to hide things if necessary (using work phone & computer, creating new e-mail accounts...) So a no contact and transparency agreement would truly be by name only (ceremonial?) and I would really then have to trust that she is following through with it. So I get the point of making the demand and putting ourselves in control a little, but it will ultimately have to come down to trust again. IMO