Continuing DBing

[PeterV2]

Yeah, I used a DB coach a year ago and it helped. I wasn't planning on delivering the control speech unless she was the one to bring it up.

As for the NC letter, I can wait. But my biggest problem is how to monitor her contacting the OM. I have no method to do so. I've been locked out of her communications for over a year, since she switched to a Blackberry (like the OM has). And she's so good at lying I wouldn't have know about contact had I not seen that cell phone roaming charge.