I hear you Wonka. The problem is I have no way of monitoring her contact with the OM. I only know she contacted him because of a roaming charge on her cell phone bill when she was in Florida to his cell phone number.

I have no access to her phone - she won't show it to me.

So how do I monitor her behaviour.

Or do I ask her how am I to know she is fulfilling her intention to stop contact?

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014