http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2539993&page=1

There you are. That's the most recent one. But if you click on Train on the top right hand corner, you can also go to all her posts in the drop down list.

A couple of things jump out at me:

1) Your H says you walk around looking mad at the world and so he doesn't want to be intimate with you.

2) You sound mad that your H thinks you should ask for help, when you feel he should know you want help

From what you've read in the books, any ideas on what you might change to try and improve these areas?


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus