It does take time Mighty. It took me a long time to get over the abandonment. The first year was the worst. Facing each occasion one by one. The first Christmas after we split up my kids were coming for dinner so they came in the afternoon. It was the first Christmas morning I woke up alone in over ten years. The only thing that helps is time. Time to heal, time to change so the memory of the last holiday is not one with your ex.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.