Hi Peter. The control speech is ok, but I'm not sure about the "I hope you will come back, you will find me ready" part in the end. It might sound too desperate. And it's kind of in the open to say I'm not waiting forever. What does that mean for YOU? And Wonka is right. Speeches usually don't help. They've heard it too many times. So it lost its value for them. Please reconsider this. The less you say, the more value it has. If you gave her that I don't want D speech too often already, this one will mean nothing to her.
Def wait before some of the vets look over it before you talk to her. And listen to them!!! Did you ever take a DB coach? They are very helpful with sth like this too.
Last edited by Complex; 02/22/1508:10 PM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
