Yes, I have both books.

I will read the recommended resources that you gave me.

He said the reason why he can't be intimate with me is because I walk around looking like I am mad at the world, which I am not. I tried explaining to him that we both work full time but when I come home I have deal with the D, homework, dinner, cleaning and her bathtime while he does nothing to help. He told me that all I have to do is ask. Why should I have to ask for help when he can see everything that I do.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)