Sounds like you're doing really well, and I'm so glad to hear it. Looks as though you are measuring yourself by your own standards and not needing to be in a R to feel self worth. Good for you!
Much better than waiting, watching and looking over your shoulder to see what your ex is doing.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus