Toots,

Thank you for responding. He cheated on my twice during our 6 1/2 years marriage and I can't seem to forgive him. He shows no remorse and does not accept responsibility for his actions. We lived like roommates. He blames me for everything. On weekends he would stay in our bedroom and watch all weekend long and ignore my daughter and me, like we were invisible. I tried talking to him about it but it went in one ear and out the other.

He told me that he loves me, but hates me at the same time. What does that really mean?


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)