Hi hopeful

The best starting point is to read DR, I would say. Also, if you want to save your marriage, I would stop mentioning divorce right now.

Can you tell us some more about how your M has got to this point? What do you think has been your part in this?

The more info you give, the better we can help.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus