Yup, like you told me, you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to be perfect...
Do you have a friend you can be with and talk to about this, would that nurture you?
Ha yes, as I was typing this out I realised the parallels between what I told you and what I am doing. I think a lot of us on these boards have some perfectionistic tendencies?
One thing I've struggled with is that while all my friends have been great about talking to me about the sitch, many of them are very much of the "D the @*$@(, kick him out of your house" variety. I've been talking to them about my sitch a bit less. I do have one friend who's very much a natural DB-er, her advice is always along the lines of DB advice, and she's very supportive. But she's extremely busy at work this month so hard to pin down for dinner/drinks. I'm going to try again for this week though!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
