Zelda - you're right about the emotional stretch. I get frustrated but H *has* made some strides lately and while I get annoyed at his inability to identify emotions he is a lot better than a few months ago. I think the key is to balance the more difficult stuff (like our argument and subsequent convo this morning) with fun, lighter times.
Yes, I know what you mean, we do feel closer even in the arguing. So I will try to take that, not expect anything, but celebrate we can relate to each other better.
Thanks! I kind of want to print "I've got this" and "I'll be fine, no matter what" out and stick it on my mirror because I keep telling myself that all the time. But I think H would wonder what on earth it was about.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.