Sorry for typos, voice to text...just wanted to add - remember you said your H has a quota for emotional stretch. You'll know when a good time is to either drop a few thoughts at him or ask if you can talk, if you remember that. Just leave room for an exit, or room for him to decline an invite to talk.
After the closeness you shared after a tough time this morning - I think you are trial piecing in a strange way. Expectations are our worst enemy, but celebrate that you are moving closer over all, no?
You've GOT this. All you can do is your best, and you're doing it, there are no regrets to be had here bc there's no magic word, phrasing, timing if it's meant to be. You're going to be fine - No matter what the outcome.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
You'll know when a good time is to either drop a few thoughts at him or ask if you can talk, if you remember that. Just leave room for an exit, or room for him to decline an invite to talk.