Thanks to everyone here for sharing their experiences and knowledge. I am forever grateful! I typed a long response to Sandi's response and I'm on my phone and I lost it somehow when my phone rang.
Woke up nervous. I am scared for today. I do not know what to expect from her. I will require complete transparency and proof of the end. I know she has not done this yet based on the answer yesterday. If she thinks she can just come here and all is well then she is in for a rude awakening. She can no longer stay here. This is going to be a major point of contention for her. I will insist she leave. But obviously I cannot make her go. I need to figure out how to accomplish this in a way that she will agree and do it. I think I may need to take the kids to my parents.
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15