PS, a thought - did she lie to you about the cabin out of compulsory whatever, or bc she wanted to see if you'd take opportunity to roll out the red carpet home if you believed she hadn't found herself a home? Sometimes people say "you don't love me" trying to bait the ILYs. Maybe her defeatist statements are some of this...

But I have to believe WW WAS is going to have to work a lot harder than that, even with this pointless speculation about her mess.

You can still be kind, friendly, and I think your "you never know" was perfectly delivered. smile


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.