My wife wound up calling back to say that she would speak to our babysitter tomorrow, and to keep her on for now. She also said some other things about people around us that are rather concerning as well as having to speak to me another day about things I've said. I tried to validate but what she was saying was way out of left field and pretty complicated stuff, particularly as it doesn't directly affect my wife, myself or our kids.
To make matters more complicated, my wife suggested that she may move back here in April instead of me moving there. That doesn't really solve anything and I reiterated that I was moving there unless something changed in the next two weeks, which of course, it won't.
Don't get me wrong, I'd love to stay as I've started to find my groove here, meet some people and I wouldn't have to move house. At the same time, these dramas will keep following us if we stay in town and job prospects are terrible, which is why my wife moved out of town to begin with.
All in all, a pretty complicated day that will roll into the next couple of days. Somehow I'm in the middle even though I have no idea exactly who has said what or why. My wife's answer when things come up is to "take the kids" away, which of course, will create more problems.
Roll on Wednesday and roll on Easter... and roll on 20[insert a year other than 2015 or 2016 here].
People. Sheesh.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014