V! Checking in to see how you are. I want to smack your H Writing after a big glass of wine. That guy is lucky to have you standing, that's all I know. I'm sure you are a ton of fun to be out with and around. Sounds like some good work in your part all the way around.
Forgive me for what may be a naive or obtuse question.
What keeps you from throwing something like this into the universe: H, when you do this, it makes me feel like ----
My H recently shared with me that he didn't voice a lot of his needs, thoughts, feelings bc the only thing worse than having them to begin with was the chance that if he presented to me, I'd ignore or not receive.
I know you've done some hard work to detach and stand as you are, but wouldn't it also be a 180 to assert V's needs and desires to her H? Even if he's miserable and you're S in house? Could it make anything worse?
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
