Barry, wish I had some advice for you or some valid input but I don't. Just wanted to say it is very commendable that you are doing so well juggling work, DBing and school and doing well at it to boot. Hope your vacation goes well. I understand your apprehension about the in-laws, but I am sure once you get over the initial meeting every thing will fall into place.

Good luck and have fun.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15