My husband moved out 1-31-15, the day before my birthday.

We weren't getting along for awhile now. We were constantly at each others throat all the time. So, I thought we should take a time out, so he decided to move out. He really won't talk to me. He had our daughter the week of Valentines and she had project that was due on Thursday and he had her for five days. Well, he didn't help her with her project and when she returned to me on Wednesday we had to finish it because it was due the next day. He had five days and he gave me one day. Well, I was unhappy and sent him an email telling him when she is with him, he needs to complete the project. Well he wasn't happy about it. So when he left her clothes at the house, I told him that I left him something on the table, it was a box of his favorite cookies for Valentines Day. I got upset with him because he couldn't even say thank you for them. We got into it. Out of anger I filed for divorce. I told him that night. He told me that he did not want a divorce. I told him then I would hold off if he really meant it.

Well, he came over last night so we can talk. He said that he doesn't want a divorce but he really couldn't make a decision because he was so angry with me. That he needed time to stop being angry with me so he can make his mind up. I am confused. He said he didn't want a divorce, but yet he needs time to make his mind up.

Can someone help me.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)