Originally Posted By: Toots
My major questions for tonight:
-How do I handle tomorrow?
-What do I do if he brings up the topic of last night's ML again?
-What if he tries to ML again?

I think you may just want to stick with your approach from today. The convo with your H seemed to work pretty well, and you may just want to go for more of the same. You enjoyed ML. It's not a huge deal etc..light and friendly, pretty busy etc.

You may want to pull back a little and see how he seems to be doing. Not put yourself in situations likely to lead to LM - just for now, whilst you monitor how he is doing after your intimacy last night...again - light, friendly etc..


Thanks T, good advice! I think I will stick with the same approach, and I really like the suggestion to just observe (and avoid situations that could lead to ML). I have decided to treat it like a mission - will just try to observe, and not react. Just observe his actions over the next few days.


Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
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