May be it is a good thing that your H is confused. I don't know may be better than mine who is dead serious about moving out.

You did great one the convo after ML. So for 180's sake, if he tries again, push him away then.

Me 44; H 48
no kids together; H has D24, D19
M 14; T 18
DB 12/21/14
living together (for now)