I think you really did good with ML and not making a big deal out of it. If you act okay with that, then H will calm down. Funny, H is taking his nonverbal cues from you.
As for the snacks & movie, excellent! It's good to leave H alone and allow him space to just to enjoy himself.
Slow is fast.
Good job.
Thanks for the vote of confidence, Wonka. Especially since I wasn't sure if I handled it properly.
I mean, I feel like I'm supposed to validate H's feelings and listen to him and all that, but I also knew any sort of R talk wasn't beneficial, especially when he seemed to be in panic/pullback mode and feeling vulnerable.
As my friend told me (who doesn't know DB but seems to naturally get it) - 'you continue being strong, sexy, confident you and just be completely calm. His paranoia and confusion are his own, let him deal with it.'
If he brings it up again, should I let him talk or change the subject again?
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
