Seperated, she is with someone - I'm desperate (2)

[vdubber]

Thanks Toots. Yes I think I finally believe and understand this. It is completely counter intuitive as I had always thought I needed to be there for her, to show her how much I care, to do the little things. That might be good and dandy in a healthy M but not where my M has been and made me very unattractive and needy.

I can look back and see some progress I've made but I'm still a rookie...alot of growth required.

Going to see if I can get S18 out of the house this afternoon to go downtown to an Indian restaurant. A colleague of mine also just arrived in town yesterday so going to see if I can meet up with him for dinner tonight or tomorrow night. GAL is still challenging for me right now but looking for improvement in this area each week.