"I need to continue to break the codependency, to be an individual on my own, to get my confidence and self esteem back. To get my own interests and friends. To become happy in my own skin."
is way more attractive than this.....
"For months I texted her good morning, goodnight, dropped coffee off to her house on my way to work, asked her how her day was, etc... I was support for her even though she had an OM in the picture"
and that's where DBing is counter intuitive. I think you're doing well VDubber.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
