Probably she wanted you to rescue her in some way. And she was temperature checking. But as long as she has OM she should not be using you for her emotional support. That is cake-eating, and it's hard for a woman to respect a man who allows that, even if she wants the validation.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!