Susana (4) - Do you have to be confusin'?

[Ahoy]

susana, you can't "nice" him back into the relationship. The snacks, the ML, the attention -- all of that is preventing you from detaching. It will drag out the process and mess with your head. Let him pursue if he wants to, but you have to give him the opportunity to pursue by drawing away and focusing on yourself. If he follows, fine. If he doesn't, then a new life awaits you.