So I wanted to share what has happened since last night. After work I went to my sisters for my nephews bday. I was home by 10:30. This is where it gets strange.

At 1:15am WAW calls me twice. I do not answer. 2nd call leaves a voice mail. No words but it sounded like she was in her car getting pulled over.

2:00am - hear S18 phone ring. He comes in to tell me his mom got pulled over around corner from my place (we currently live about 2.5 blocks apart) and she needed to come in and use the restroom. I thought this very odd. I asked him to please close my bedroom door. I hear him let her in...she asks where's your dad as she says she drove bg earlier and i wasnt home, to which he tells her I'm sleeping and it's 2a.m...that almost made me chuckle. She uses restroom and leaves.

2:15am - she sends me 2 text messages. One saying she tried to call me. 2nd saying she got pulled over for DUI

2:40am - sends me 3 text messages. Saying she wasn't even drinking, they made her take a breath test but had to let her go as she wasn't drinking, that she was on way to store to get medicine for D7 as she had been up multiple times with stomach problems. And that she was so angry for getting pulled over.

I have not responded to any of this and the stopping by 45 minutes after the initial phone calls really seemed strange to me.

I do want to recognize D7 is sick. How do I respond to this? Maybe with "I can imagine getting pulled over was quite stressful. I'm sorry to hear about D7, I hope she is feeling better soon. I am thinking of her".

Is this out of line? I don't want to acknowledge she stopped by as it makes no sense and I think it opens things up for an argument of some sort.

Advice?


M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time