Pam! Great to see you. I was just thinking about you earlier today, and wondering how things are going for you. I don't know to what extent you've been lurking here lately, but you almost can't help but trip over the buzz being created by a book called Passionate Marriage. In the past week there've been a storm of posts on many aspects of it. I've read the whole book, and am about to begin putting it into action. The thought that occurred to me in regards to your sitch was something you posted a while ago about needing to be true to yourself, and not being sure you could do that in relation to your M. The reason I thought of you in that context is that this book deals with EXACTLY that - how each partner in a marriage can be true to themSELVES, while giving the other the room for growth and exploration of potential. It excited me greatly to see the possibilities. I'm not proseletizing here... what you do is up to you, I'm just putting a possibility in front of you.
