So W wakes up this morning and tells me to make pancakes. I lie to myself - I'm doing it for the kids. W disappears - hides away upstairs (focusing on herself) while I make the pancakes and get the kids fed.

W finally comes downstairs. Says she wants to go out this evening - asks if I can watch the kids. I'm thinking, watch the kids for what? I say I am uncertain whether I can (which she seemed fine with) - may have plans. I ask if she what she wants to do - she replies maybe go to a bar and play some pool. I ask if she was heading out with some GFs. She nonchalantly replies that she wants to go out with AP. She has the gall to ask me to enable that relationship. I am at a loss regarding what to do.

Almost threw out her pancakes but stayed cool and am hiding upstairs. I've had enough of this BS. About to throw in the towel.

That said, if AP and W do not go out, then how will she realize that he is not her knight in shining armor. I mean, she needs exposure. But, it is hard to swallow enabling her relationship (or demise thereof).

p.s. Could use some insight from the folks reading this post. Thanks.


M: 13
D:2
S:5
D:7
BD:1.5.15