Someone please help me with a plan of action!

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To make a long story short about 1 year ago my W stopped greeting me at the door for a hug and a kiss after a day at work. She said she was not going out of her way for me any more. Soon after that she stopped holding my hand while out walking with her. Soon after that making love with her was like being with a robot she had no emotion at all. A few months later I got the ILYBINILWY any more speech. 5 months ago began our in house separation, no sex and separate bedrooms. Yes I did all the crying ,begging and pleading with her which pushed her farther away. I also got the "it's over" hug of death during one of my pathetic crying episodes about two months ago. I have since read DB and stopped the begging and crying. We still do everything together like church,shopping,t.v.,bike riding,cards and even weekends away ( with separate beds and no sex) we just do everything like brother and sister. Last week she took a new job and we will only see each other on the weekends. She postponed the sale of our house for one year so we can sort finances sorted out and for her to get comfortable with her new job. I have 1 year till we separate and it's killing me as we seem to get farther apart every day. My W is the no nonsense type and when she say's something she means it. I need a plan of action but I just can't seem to come up with anything. Someone pleas help me!

We have been married for over 30 years