Happy,
You are not going crazy. Your h is a very smooth operator. I love the way he changed the subject and continue in that direction.

I wouldn't bring up that ow situation again. Whatever he/she is doing, it's keeping your focus on them and your h is enjoying this attention, be it positive or negative. You've stated how you felt, now let it be.

Let me say this one more time...you are not going crazy!

Continue moving forward and keep the focus on you and your son.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.