New here, and could use some advice

[Ahoy]

Hi Ginger -- most men don't suddenly leave unless they are secretly involved with someone else. If you read through the threads on this board you'll find that that is almost always the case. Prepare yourself and protect yourself. Even though he says he felt neglected, now is not the time to shower him with attention -- it's time to pay attention to your own needs for moving forward, one way or another. Best of luck to you.