Thanks for the reply, this is exactly what I'm planning on doing for her birthday is give her a card with gift certificate for a massage(she loves massages). I do agree with a counselling session with the whole family and something that I would like to see if she will agree to.
M42 W41 D17 Step-D17 S10 S8 Married 11, Together 14 Separated 1 Month, W living at her parents Bomb: 1/16/2015 "I don't feel close to you, I feel distant."