Try not to get angry. Accept responsibility for your own part in what happened.

Also remember that your H is probably pretty confused, vulnerable and all over the place right now. And that means he may be making some poor judgements right now (not that ML to you is poor judgement of course! - but YKWIM)

Try and accept all of this. Recognise that you may see a pullback now, and maybe just pullback yourself...keep it light, no pressure, nothing heavy - GAL if possible...


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus