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Yes, and being the hot-blooded little Italian that she is, "she knows a guy," capische? LOL


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Yes, yes, yes ^^^^. I completely agree, especially if acts of service is one of his love languages.


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Lol Starsky, reminds me of how my H asked me to be his GF after I made him a bagel with all the fixings. He was like "omg you cooked me lunch!" I was just like "cooked? You haven't seen *anything* yet!"

Wonka - great advice, thank you!!

My plan for tomorrow:
1. Set up the projector so he can watch his stuff on the big screen
2. Lay out the drinks and snacks. I bought beer (of course), his favourite snacks, his special request (edamame-wtf!), and a few surprises like 7 layer dip (Apparently it's a really american thing and he'd never had it before and when I made it before he declared it the most amazing dip ever). Was also planning on making chocolate chip cookies because I have chocolate chips taking over my cupboards and need to use them up, and they happen to be his favourite dessert. I am excited for him, it sounds like a great afternoon wink
3. Just like you said, will head out with a smile on my face and a simple "enjoy your movie!"

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Susana,

^^ Like, LIKE!! laugh

I see a lot of parallels between your current sitch and Train's. You might want to read up a bit on Train's threads, if you haven't already done so.


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Can I come watch the movie & have snax? grin


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Originally Posted By: Wonka
Susana,

^^ Like, LIKE!! laugh

I see a lot of parallels between your current sitch and Train's. You might want to read up a bit on Train's threads, if you haven't already done so.


Thank you for all your great advice Wonka!! laugh

I read some of Trains threads awhile back but I will give another read through, thanks for the tip!


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Originally Posted By: Toots
Can I come watch the movie & have snax? grin


Toots I think we all want to watch the movie and have snax but unfortunately the viewing is taking place in H's man cave so it's not open to the public :P

Snax time on DB forum instead? wink


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And you know what? I guar-an-damn-TEE you he talks this gesture up with his guy friends. And I also can guar-an-damn-tee you how they will respond, and it will ALL be good for SUSANA! It will be along the lines of "Dude, are you serious? Is this the same woman you've been complaining about?? I'm just not seein' it!" and the like. cool


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Originally Posted By: Starsky309
And you know what? I guar-an-damn-TEE you he talks this gesture up with his guy friends. And I also can guar-an-damn-tee you how they will respond, and it will ALL be good for SUSANA! It will be along the lines of "Dude, are you serious? Is this the same woman you've been complaining about?? I'm just not seein' it!" and the like. cool


Nice cool


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Help! So...H and I ML last night. I don't know how much he'd had to drink but I'm guessing that played into it.

I have a feeling H is freaking out.

How do I handle the conversation if he tells me it was a mistake or he regrets it?


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