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Thread number five for me - my lucky number. Tiny recap:

BD1 - Mar 2014, EA discovered

BD2 - July 2014, H admits PA. I move to parents 2 hrs away

Jul-Sep 2014 - lots of talking with H, A continues, he's 'confused.'

Oct-Feb 2014 - Virtually NC. I rent a flat, build up my own life, no idea of A status

Feb 2015 - H made redundant. Wants to sell our house. Says he's been stupid, lost sight of what's important. Tells me our R is over. Contacts me again, asking (I think) 'is it over?'

Last edited by Toots; 02/21/15 09:10 AM.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus