Thanks for checking in. Here's a listing of things I'm working on
Stop being a 'fixer' for sitchs outside my control Figure out how to be less judgmental with other people's decisions Work on my anger w W putting our family in this sitch Be more empathetic to other's decisions More intimacy and emotion in relationships (I got complacent in our M)
As far as your suggestions, I'm not sure that it's to that level. Up until this point, the criticism has been people that know W and see the change in her parenting style. This is the first one that really didn't know W. I didn't get that she was overly concerned when she asked me, but D4 was dressed strangely today since W had kids this morning and I picked them up after school. She said something half laughing saying about her fashion style and how last week she thought she must have been cold because she was in a skirt and open toed shoes.
D4 gets dressed herself and often comes down in a sun dress when I have her, I usually just say that she needs to get a long shirt/ pants on than she'll go get changed without much issue. I think W is just not asking her to get changed.
Anyway, due to things I'm working on and the monumental struggles in communication about anything including the kids that we have had up until recently (she was pretty much NC for 5 months) I'm not going to say anything, but I understand the concern.
Last edited by MCS; 02/21/1506:14 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
