CH: Your courage continues to amaze me. Your insights into your marriage and the stages it has gone through, the denial, the beginning of both of you admitting that it is not the marriage you had hoped it would be, and perhaps a glimmer of hope that you two can make it a great marriage, provides hope for me, too.
I can understand your ambivalence with Aquarian coming here and sharing her views with us. We are just anonymous strangers. But sometimes it's easier to trust those who you don't see, than to trust those people who are close to you. (Hmmm, kinda sounds like religion. Maybe I should change my name to Hairgod. Sorry )
We are hear, and I think I speak for all when I say we will do whatever we can to provide support for both of you to make it through this. We hope you come out the other end happy and healthy and married.
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