New here, and could use some advice

[Maybell]

Ginger, if you could have changed your behavior, what specifically would you have done differently? Why do you think he felt neglected? What was going on in your home?

Young at Heart is completely right about taking charge of your life. It's a little much to expect you to be carefree at this point, but taking him seriously, listening and validating, and paying attention are all excellent places to start.

I'm sorry you're here but you're in the right place.