NO. Good lord, no.

95% too much. "Letting them go" only works if YOU initiate it. You're still reacting to HER.

"I'm sorry you feel that way. Everything I've done, I've done to try to save our marriage. I stand by my actions."

That -- or something similar -- is ALL you should say.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)