Quote: I was working on it 80% and H didn't realize he was only working 45%, or so, until the other day. He hadn't heard my pleas for help. He hadn't heard my love for him. He didn't realize that he was trying to keep me in his pocket and control me. He hadn't heard that he was pushing me away. He thought my lack of libido was something he had to correct with sexual stimulas rather than looking at the big picture, including himself.
What you said above is NORMAL. Us HD guys will automatically keep going down cheeseless tunnels of sex trying to turn you LD ladies on. Heck, until I started reading books, I had no real clue as to how women think, and it still is hard for me to understand. You just now are starting to get to the point where both of you might be ready to move forward into a marriage where yo get far closer together and will team up to tackle the problems you have. Stay the course, you have the ship turned in the right direction!
