I used to do the same....say things like he's really a good guy...he just in crisis. I think unfortunately the crisis brings out their dark side full force. How long it lasts and whether or not they can get past it is the problem.

Don't messure your worth on his yardstick. Keep moving forward. He will either catch up or eventually get left behind. If you don't move you will be stuck in limbo. That is like he-- on earth.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.