All marriages go through some really dark times. But they don't have to stay there. Heck, some couples have built really good marriages after infedility, so if they can do it, so can the rest of us. It takes forgiveness, and a couple that REALLY wants to work together to create a great marriage. Anyone can do it provided they set their minds to it 150%. It will take time, but never give up hope! Possibly the best part, is the journey you will take together in trying to get there. That is all any of us can ask for, is to make the journey together.