Thanks toots and starsky. I read on here somewhere that IF IF IF they come back they come back snot nosed blubbering bawling begging. I dream of that day and I love your words of making me better for me and then maybe she takes a peek...
Until then, I need more GAL...love what I am doing and am going to keep building on it
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14
One other thing she has not done though, don't know whether it is good or bad...I know in her IC she talks about what she will do if we divorce (get her own place etc.) but she has not once said she wants to move out or she wants to divorce. She continues to just say she does not know what she wants. Good or bad...IDK... but always trying to think of whatever I can to put out there.
Is she a cake eater? You bet. But... I do hope she is considering staying married and putting in the effort. That is why I am still here. I love W
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14
But what if the person is NOT properly detached? I find that often they spend so much time "monitoring" how their walkaway or wayward spouse is reacting to them, that they're not actually out DOING: creating that exciting, passionate, mysterious, busy life that they should be.
Originally Posted By: 4mendmj
One other thing she has not done though, don't know whether it is good or bad...I know in her IC she talks about what she will do if we divorce (get her own place etc.) but she has not once said she wants to move out or she wants to divorce. She continues to just say she does not know what she wants. Good or bad...IDK... but always trying to think of whatever I can to put out there.
Is she a cake eater? You bet. But... I do hope she is considering staying married and putting in the effort. That is why I am still here. I love W
Sorry, guess I should have added (in the interests of full disclosure and for newbies): I am Puppy Dog Tails (and before that, Chocolateeyes). I changed my username along the way for reasons I won't bore you with here, lol, but I didn't want to be one of those self-important blowhards who talk about themselves in the 3rd person!
Hey Starsky, I am reading a long thread on another marriage site with a user "Puppy Dog Tails". Is that you too? Very similiar writing style.
No issues Starsky. I wrote it because I am indeed talking about very specifically her and not me in that post. And gaining your and other's wisdom on my sitch. That entire post/paragraph is about observations I have made in the last 45 days about her.
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14
This is truly a first. W is home right now. D and I got home about 725 and w is still home. Heck, she could leave in five minutes...but here is what I owe the world to you all for....I'm not chasing. She is in her room, on her bed, with the door open but if she wanted to talk to me....she would. No chasing 4mendmj
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14
