Sorry, guess I should have added (in the interests of full disclosure and for newbies): I am Puppy Dog Tails (and before that, Chocolateeyes). I changed my username along the way for reasons I won't bore you with here, lol, but I didn't want to be one of those self-important blowhards who talk about themselves in the 3rd person!
Hey Starsky, I am reading a long thread on another marriage site with a user "Puppy Dog Tails". Is that you too? Very similiar writing style.