But what if the person is NOT properly detached? I find that often they spend so much time "monitoring" how their walkaway or wayward spouse is reacting to them, that they're not actually out DOING: creating that exciting, passionate, mysterious, busy life that they should be.
Originally Posted By: 4mendmj
One other thing she has not done though, don't know whether it is good or bad...I know in her IC she talks about what she will do if we divorce (get her own place etc.) but she has not once said she wants to move out or she wants to divorce. She continues to just say she does not know what she wants. Good or bad...IDK... but always trying to think of whatever I can to put out there.
Is she a cake eater? You bet. But... I do hope she is considering staying married and putting in the effort. That is why I am still here. I love W
