Unfortunately right now W has not spewed in weeks and weeks. Frankly that is part of our long term problem I will hope to work on with her is I wish she communicated what she wants better and I need to learn to listen better to what she does give me and learn to ask better open ended questions...
Anyway, I get nothing right now. She hardly speaks to me, hardly acknowledges me, in the last week is now leaving in the morning after saying goodbye to D6 and does not even say goodbye to me. Don't know why.. it is what it is but I certainly do not get much of a read on a person that says almost nothing and almost always is gone. The things you say though help as they give me an idea of what to recognize.
Short term, me giving up her laundry etc. has I am sure pushed her buttons so I do not expect her to be pleased about it...and me going out tomorrow night and even using your script on "not knowing when I will be back" will certainly not improve her opinion of me in the short term since I am now essentially taking away a night with her lover for my own enjoyment. But you told me very early in my journey here, the easy way is not the successful way. If it hurts, if it pushes you into new territory....it MIGHT be the right thing.
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14
