never, EVER ask. You either confront with a statement, if and when you have ROCK-SOLID evidence (and never EVER revealing the source of your intel!). You do this with a "I know all about you and ______, and it needs to stop. It's incredibly disrespectful to me, to our marriage, and (if applicable) to our family" . . .
. . . or you say nothing, and continue to monitor the situation. ... Make sense?
Starsky
Yes, sir.
I think this has a lot to do with my emotions being all over the place. I will continue the detective work.
