Stay with it, CH. It sounds like both of you are really hurting.
I'm just trying to figure out where all this is coming from. Did CH try to do something to you while you were sleeping last night? Did your C tell you to move on? Why are you so pissed off, Pam?
Quote: I honestly believe that H has a chance to go on and meet someone that will fully love him and want to grow old with him.
This is not what I'd expect from you, Pam. This is the old cop-out language, designed to make you look like you're being magnanimous. Well, if you set it free, and it flies back to you, then isn't it your responsibility to love it and nurture it?
