So I suggested the movie/snacks marathon. He wants to watch battle star galactic which he recently started. I'm not invited because he's already partway through, but that's ok. He said "oh you don't need to" (he always seems to feel bad when I/someone is nice to him)when I suggested the snacks but he had a huge grin on his face and acted like he liked the idea.
I'd suggest that you go ahead and gather up all the snacks. H's nonverbal reaction to your suggestion of snacks spoke volumes! Lay them down the table (or whatever) in his man cave and then smile at H briefly before heading out for mani/pedi. A simple "enjoy your movie!" will suffice when you head out the door.
